Part of W's co-op preschool is participating in a huge fund raiser for the school. The school has an annual rummage sale where they make ~30k selling other people's used stuff. It is quite amazing. The week of rummage (this week), each family has to work 20+ hours prepping for the sale (picking up donations, unloading donations, sorting donations into categories, and selling donations and then hauling unwanted donations to the dump). In addition each family has to donate 2 "treasures" to the sale (suggested treasures include real jewelry, persian carpets, fur coats, etc.) and cook 2 baked items to sell at the sale (where a dozen cookies counts as 1 baked item). It is a massive amount of time and energy (esp. when you have logistics of daycare of not only your preschooler but also a baby in our case). In some ways it is a cool event, where families get to 'bond' on their work days and the school gets to encourage re-use and recycling and of course make money for the school to do cool things (like buy more fun art supplies for the kids, etc.), but in many ways it is a huge waste of time and given the option, I would rather donate our share of $ to the school and have a sane week... but all that aside, what it really has been making me think about is people and their relationship to their possessions... After 9+ hours of unloading and sorting other people's 'donations', I am a bit mystified by people and their stuff (myself included!). Now, I am a big supporter of re-use and re-cycling and I regularly pack some used, now unwanted possessions into bags for donations to second hand stores, etc., but after sorting through all this stuff, I just have to say:
a) people donate crap and I mean crap. It just amazed me, the total garbage people handed off as donations, things like, mostly burned up candles, dirty dirty old plastic spoons and tupperware with either no matching top or bottom and crud caked onto it, school notebooks mostly filled up, coloring books mostly colored in, white couches that were ripped and stained beyond believe, old funky underware with no elastic left in them, unwashed stained grody clothing, random peices of hardware (like random peices of metal or wood) which were clearly once a part of something, but that something is long since gone or broken, board games with missing peices, puzzles with missing peices, completely broken toys, stained sheets or pillow cases, etc. etc. The list goes on. It just amazed me - I have to admit to suffering from guilt at throwing things away and looking back now there are likely things I DONATED that I should have just disposed of properly, but really seeing the amazing range of total garbage that people pass on for someone else to deal with shocked me and has made me swear a new resolution that I will not donate crap to second hand stores and instead will only donate something that I _really_ think someone else would want. I know that ultimately all of the listed above items have some 'value' in the world and it would be great if they could be used again and again until they truely were un-usable, but really if we want that for our stuff, _we_ should use it that much, and not just dump our unwanted random crap on someone else.
b) we (middle and > class folks) have and buy way way too much stuff and we could all survive for years without the manufacture of any new clothing or housewares or books or toys for years and years. Really.
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